We are all attracted to do different things when looking for a relationship, but women are together in telling men they should not do these 14 things if they want to look attractive.
Be Rude or Disrespectful to Others
This is a major turn-off for most people, regardless of gender. Being rude or disrespectful to others is a turn-off because it shows you lack empathy and compassion. It also shows that you do not value other people’s time or feelings.
Be Arrogant or Cocky
No one likes someone who thinks they’re better than everyone else. Being arrogant is a turn-off for most people. It shows that you think you’re better than everyone else and are not interested in getting to know anyone on a deeper level.
Be Dishonest or Deceitful
Trust is essential in any relationship, and if you’re caught lying or cheating, you’ll be lucky if your partner gives you a second chance. Being dishonest or deceitful is a turn-off for most women. It shows that you are not someone they can trust, and it can damage your relationship.
Be Manipulative or Controlling
No one wants to be in a relationship with someone trying to control their every move. It shows that you are not someone they can trust. Trust is essential in any relationship; if you are dishonest, it will be difficult for your partner to trust you again.
Be Jealous or Possessive
It’s normal to feel a little jealous occasionally, but if you’re constantly accusing your partner of cheating or trying to control who they spend time with, you’re going to push them away.
Be Lazy or Unmotivated
No one wants to be with someone who doesn’t have any goals or ambitions. This shows that you could be more ambitious and driven. Most women want to be with a partner who is ambitious and driven in life.
Yes, being unhygienic can be a turn-off for many women. It can show that you don’t care about yourself or your appearance, and it can also be a health hazard. Some men will do their best to make an impression, but they let their standards slip after a few dates, which will go down poorly with women.
Be Poorly Dressed
You don’t have to be a fashion icon, but putting in a little effort with your appearance shows that you care about yourself and that you respect your partner enough to make a good impression.
Be Negative or Pessimistic
No one wants to be around someone who is always complaining or bringing everyone down. It can be draining and depressing to be around someone who is always negative or pessimistic. Women want to be with a partner who is positive and upbeat.
Be Cheap or Stingy
It’s okay to be frugal, but if you’re constantly nickel-and-diming your partner or refusing to spend money on things that are important to them, it’s going to cause a lot of resentment.
Be Immature or Childish
Everyone acts immature occasionally, but if you’re constantly throwing tantrums or making excuses for your behavior, it will wear your partner down. It can show that you are not ready for a serious relationship or that you are not capable of taking responsibility for your actions.
Be Selfish or Inconsiderate
It’s important to be able to put your partner’s needs before your own from time to time. It shows that you are immature. Mature people are able to think about the needs and feelings of others. Selfish and inconsiderate people only care about themselves.
Be Emotionally Unavailable
If you are unable to open up to your partner or share your feelings, it won’t be easy to build a deep and meaningful connection. It can make it difficult to build trust and intimacy. Women want to be with a partner whom they can trust and feel close to. If you are emotionally unavailable, it can make it difficult to build these essential elements of a relationship.
Be Unavailable or Unreliable
If you’re always canceling plans or flaking out, it’s going to make your partner feel like you don’t value their time. It can be frustrating and annoying to be with someone who is unavailable or unreliable. Men want to be with a partner who is available to spend time with them and who they can count on to be there.
Be Abusive or Violent
This should go without saying, but any form of abuse is unacceptable. It is dangerous and harmful. Women want to be with a partner who will keep them safe and protected. Abuse and violence can be physically, emotionally, and psychologically harmful. If you are experiencing abuse or violence, please know that you are not alone. There are people who can help you. Please reach out to a trusted friend or family member or contact a domestic violence hotline.
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